Moving on...

A small chat with a dear friend today reminded me of my self few months ago when I was hitting the bottom over a quick decision I thought was stupid..until recently I found it was a great decision that is turning my life upside down.. which is pretty much awesome comparing my life now to what I was a year ago.

I am not here to talk about the quick decision I took overnight that completely changed my life, but lets just say that all my spontaneous decisions I've made are the cool ones and are seriously the ones that lifted me up all the time.

The circle of comfort is what always holding us back from doing something brave and unusual, some people may call it fear of the unknown, and some just have tendency to stick to the routine and are afraid of any kind of change, even if it would be for their best. You don’t have to be surprised, as I was one of those who wouldn’t dare to change, my principle was I wouldn’t risk what I have for something with a percentage of losing. I love to refer this nature that I have to my zodiac sign which is the Capricorn. We –Capricorns- are goal driven, very realistic people by nature, we may sometimes underestimate dreamy people and normally repulsed by sensitivity! As harsh as it sounds, I once gave a dear person very hard time just 'cause I didn’t understand the pain she was having over a heart matter… back then, I didn’t understand how hard it is to move on! Not until later that I realized how hard it is getting out of your circle of comfort.

While some may fight in order to fix their circle, others may just burst in tears waiting for a helping hand, only few are brave enough to dare getting out of the no-longer-circle-of-comfort to face reality and take decisions to lift them back up. But lets just say, we all end up being that brave person eventually, the only difference is that it may take people few weeks to get over it, while others take years grieving in despair over a lost chance, job, or a loved one. 

I was happy to find that my friend, who is also moving on, have shared quite the same worries about some decisions. We both found comfort in seeing that things are going well with the other and we're moving on against all the odds, we're all moving on weather we like it or not, stay where you are and life wont wait for you.. move on and you'll see the world is moving on with you.. its really your choice to be the first, or catch up the last train.